Frequently Asked Questions
What should I do when a death occurs?
The first steps will depend on where the death occurs. If your loved one dies at a hospital, nursing facility, hospice facility, or other care setting, the staff will usually help guide you through the immediate process and contact the funeral home when appropriate.
If the death occurs at home and your loved one is under hospice care, contact the hospice provider first. If the death is unexpected or your loved one is not under the care of a physician or hospice program, emergency services may need to be contacted.
Once we are notified, our staff will guide you through what happens next, arrange for your loved one to be brought into our care, and schedule a time to meet with your family to make arrangements. You do not need to have every decision made before calling us.
What is the difference between a funeral and a memorial service?
A funeral service typically takes place with the deceased present, either before burial or cremation. It may include a visitation, religious or nonreligious ceremony, prayers, readings, music, personal remarks, and a procession to the cemetery.
A memorial service is generally held without the deceased present and may take place before or after burial or cremation.
Both types of services give family and friends an opportunity to gather, remember the person who died, support one another, and honor their life. The format can be as traditional or as personal as the family wishes.
Can we still have a funeral or visitation if we choose cremation?
Yes. Choosing cremation does not prevent a family from having a visitation, funeral, memorial service, church service, or other gathering.
Some families choose to have a traditional visitation and funeral before cremation. Others prefer to have a memorial service after cremation, with or without the cremated remains present. There are many options, and we can help you decide what best reflects your family's wishes.
Cremation is simply one form of final disposition. The service and the way a life is remembered can be planned separately.
What information should I bring to the arrangement meeting?
You do not need to arrive with everything perfectly organized, but gathering some basic information ahead of time can make the arrangement process easier.
Helpful information may include:
- Your loved one's full legal name
- Home address
- Date and place of birth
- Social Security number
- Marital status
- Parents' names, including mother's maiden name
- Educational background
- Occupation or profession
- Military service information, if applicable
- Names of immediate family members and survivors
- Cemetery information, if property has already been purchased
- Any existing funeral prearrangements or written wishes
- A recent photograph for the obituary or memorial materials
If your loved one served in the military, bringing a copy of their discharge papers, such as a DD-214, can also be helpful.
We will let you know if any additional information is needed and will help guide you through the paperwork during the arrangement process.
Is embalming required?
Not in every situation.
Whether embalming is recommended or necessary can depend on the type of service being planned, the condition of the deceased, the timing of the services, and other circumstances.
For example, embalming may be appropriate when a family wishes to have a public visitation or viewing. Other arrangements may not require it.
We will explain the available options and help your family make an informed decision based on the services you are planning.
Can funeral or memorial services be personalized?
Yes. A funeral or memorial service does not have to follow one particular format.
Families may choose photographs, music, readings, favorite items, video tributes, displays, military or fraternal honors, religious traditions, personal stories, or other details that reflect the person's life and interests.
Some families prefer a traditional service, while others want something simpler or more personal. Our role is to help you create a service that feels appropriate for the person you are remembering and for the family and friends who are gathering.
Can you assist with veterans' benefits and military honors?
Yes. We can help families understand and arrange the funeral honors and benefits that may be available to eligible veterans.
Depending on eligibility and the family's wishes, this may include military honors, the presentation of the American flag, coordination with a veterans cemetery, and assistance with the appropriate paperwork.
If your loved one served in the military, it is helpful to bring a copy of their discharge paperwork, such as a DD-214, if it is available. If you are unsure what documentation you have or what benefits may apply, we can help you determine the next steps.
Who handles death certificates and other necessary paperwork?
Our funeral home prepares and files the necessary information for the death certificate and coordinates with the appropriate medical professionals and local or state offices involved in completing the record.
We can also help families obtain certified copies of the death certificate and explain how they may be used when handling matters such as financial accounts, insurance policies, property, benefits, and other estate-related responsibilities.
We also assist with other paperwork connected with the funeral arrangements, including permits, cemetery or crematory paperwork, veterans' documentation when applicable, and other required forms.
What affects the cost of funeral services?
The cost of funeral services depends on the choices a family makes and the type of arrangements selected.
Expenses may include the funeral home's professional services, transportation and care of the deceased, use of the funeral home for visitation or services, cremation or burial-related services, merchandise such as a casket or urn, and other items selected by the family.
There may also be expenses charged by outside providers, such as a cemetery, newspaper, clergy member, florist, or other service provider.
We will review the available options and costs with you before arrangements are finalized so you understand what is included and can make decisions that are appropriate for your family and your budget.
Can I make funeral arrangements in advance?
Yes. Planning ahead gives you the opportunity to record your wishes and make important decisions before they are needed.
Prearrangements can include your preferences for burial or cremation, the type of service you would like, cemetery information, music, readings, obituary information, and other personal details.
Planning ahead can also reduce the number of decisions your family may have to make at the time of death.
Preplanning does not necessarily mean that you must pay for the funeral in advance. Some people simply want their wishes documented, while others choose to discuss funding options as part of the planning process. We can explain the different options and help you decide what makes the most sense for you.
What happens during the funeral arrangement meeting?
The arrangement meeting is a time for us to sit down with your family, learn more about your loved one, and discuss the decisions that need to be made.
We will guide you through the available options for the funeral, memorial service, burial, or cremation and help coordinate the details based on your family's wishes. We will also gather the information needed for the death certificate and obituary, review cemetery or crematory arrangements, discuss any veteran or religious considerations, and go over the costs associated with the services selected.
Families are not expected to come in knowing exactly what they want. Part of our role is to explain the options, answer questions, and help you make decisions at a pace that feels manageable.
By the end of the meeting, we will have a clear plan in place and will take care of coordinating the many details involved in carrying out the arrangements.
Still have a question?
If you have a question that isn’t answered here, please feel free to reach out.
Our staff is available to provide additional information and help however we can.


